Is it really just all about being physical nowadays?

It's how we're hard wired, we can hardly help it. Women look more at a guys personality whilst men place more importance on physical appearance. There is absolutely nothing we can do to change that. In a girlfriend I HAVE to be physically and emotionally attracted to her. If one of those links do not exist, there is no potential relationship. I place great importance on a girls personality, attitude etc... though I understand this is becoming more of a rarity these days.